Saturday, December 26, 2009

Mele Kalikimaka

Rejoice! Jesus was born this morn in a lowly manger! If you stop and listen you can hear the heavenly hosts singing praises to the newborn King. Santa stopped at our house last night leaving our stockings overflowing with treasures that lit our sleepy faces as we came down the stairs! We thought of him hanging out on Maui with a mai tai, the reindeer, and Mrs. Claus as we peered inside our stockings with glee.

This Christmas was one of our most laid back. We took our time enjoying what Santa had left for each of us. While HS charged up his Air Hog (a really cool car that travels by following a beam on the walls), he built his Bionicle, and created new aliens with HH in his Ben-10 Alien Creation chamber. It delighted my heart to see him so excited and he marveling at the fact that Santa knew just what he really had wanted. This has been the first Christmas that HS tried to challenge the notion of Santa and he kept strong in his belief that Santa is real. I can only imagine what he'll share when he returns back to school!

LD played with her adorable wood kitchen and made her doll "Corrie", her Christmas bear from Nana & Grandad, and other dolls wait patiently for their chance at being pushed merrily through the living room in LD's new baby stroller. LD also delighted in wearing her cooking apron and calling grandma & poppop on her new pink Ariel phone. She chatted and cut her fruit while keeping an eye on her big brother who would pop over to the kitchen to play, too. She was obviously very content that Santa realized how much she loved to mirror her mommy!

We feasted on our traditional jilted eggs (poached eggs with a basil tomato sauce on toasted English muffins), cinnamon rolls, and of course mugs of Christmas brew left by Santa for HH & I and milk for HS & LD. Poor HS was more than ready to dive under the tree to find a present to unwrap by the time breakfast was complete.

Our family was more than generous this year...each gift we received was followed by a "WOW!" or a "How did h/she know that I love (insert word 'Bakugan','dolls', 'Ben 10')?" "This is just great!!!" It took us the greater part of our morning and well into the afternoon for us to finish unwrapping the presents. LD allowed big brother to assist in opening her gifts quickly ended as she desired to have her own moment listening to the sound of the paper being ripped and then the intake of air as she looked at what treasure was covered by the now mangled gift wrap. The problem we encountered was that she wanted to play with each of her toys (unwrap, get it out of the box, play) while HS wanted to see everything before setting his mind on playing with just one at a time. We preserved and took a mid-morning break for LD's nap~ perfect for us to have our own break watching "UP" and for me (SQ- Scullery Queen) to prep, stuff, and begin baking our 15 lb turkey.

Throughout the day, the squeals and giggles of two very happy & loved kiddos filled our hale as Christmas music inspired a jig or two from HH & me (we love to turn the music up and dance...it's quickly becoming a nightly family event!). Dinner was very simple: turkey, homemade stuffing, and green bean casserole. We toasted with champagne and sparkling cider to a wonderful Christmas and wishes that the same would be said for all of our family and friends.

It is comforting to know that even with 75 degree weather, Christmas in Hawaii does have the same meaning and feeling as Christmas' past. Our Christmas stroll led us throughout our festively decorated neighborhood and reinforced that Christmas does indeed fill us all to the brim with goodwill and cheer. We passed friends and neighborhood children who were all wearing grins from ear to ear.

As we settle in for the night with our eggnog and mincemeat, it would be wonderful if our family over the pond could be sitting with us around our tree. Our thoughts of family and friends who are far away are sent with loads of cheer and wishes for a wonderful Mele Kalikimaka!

Friday, December 25, 2009

Santa's Gift


After a TDY ("Temporary Duty Yonder" for non military people) that was only suppose to last for a week, HH found himself stuck for four more days, totally missing the holiday preparation at our house and the fantastic caroling party with friends at our hale. Our spirits took a dive, but after laughing hysterically at Kendo dressed as Santa, we were once again feeling the holiday spirit and counting once more down until HH's plane touched the ground and his suitcase could be rolled back into our hale.

With a rather bumpy travel beginning (more than 2 hours delayed out of Charlotte, NC) and yet again the potential to miss Christmas, Santa brought us an early present this year. Just in time for Christmas eve mass. Thank God for a sleigh and eight tiny reindeer. Christmas could begin.


PS: After this experience I can safetly say I won't be to pleased with a TDY to anywhere snowy during the holidays!!!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Clan Cookery

Cookery \Cook"er*y\ (k[oo^]k"[~e]r*[y^]), n.

1. The art or process of preparing food for the table, by dressing, compounding, and the application of heat; cooking. [1913 Webster]

2. A delicacy; a dainty. [Obs.]


Oh my, if you stepped into our hale during this holiday season you would think we had all gone nuts. Tis the season to bake, bake, and BAKE! With HH off to a TDY to the East coast, he left the kids with a cookie fiend. I can't resist the smell of cookies baking in the oven and the act of decorating them for friends and HH's work. Maybe I should look into a "Cookie Bakers Annyomous"...I am Scullery Queen and yes, I have a problem...over baking!

The kiddos love the process just as much as me. They wore their aprons, helped mix up the dough, and then eagerly awaited the arrival of the baked cookie to decorate. HS is getting to be a real pro at cookie cutting and this marked the first year that he did all the measuring himself...with doubling the recipe! LD was just as thrilled to pat flour all over the counter, the floor, her face, her brother's face, and then put a big fluff of poweder on Kendo's nose.


I'm changing our name from Clan Hale (home) to Clan Cookery from now on during the holiday season! Stop on by for a warm gingerbread cookie, Christmas Incredible (ritz crackers with peanut butter in the middle dipped in chocolate), or a sugar cookie decorated with a Hawaiian flare.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Carols and Cocoa


Here we come a-caroling among the palms so green;
Here we come a-wand'ring so fair to be seen.
Love and joy come to you.
And to you glad Mele Kalikimaka too.
And God bless you and send you a Hau'oli Makahiki Hou!
And God send you a Hau'oli Makahiki Hou!

I admit it. I can sometimes be a big nerd. Christmas traditions that I enjoyed so much as a child pop out during the holiday season. This year, I couldn't shake the memories of caroling parties that I so loved participating. I contemplated the idea of doing it here in Hawaii. The looks of surprise were almost comical as I described the invitiation to come over two days before christmas eve and enjoy a good ole fashioned caroling party: Hawaiian style.

The crockpot was filled with chili and surrounded with all the trimmings for a good bowl of chili; the mulled wine was filling the air with the smell of Christmas cheer; and our friends arrived donnning hats, scarves, and Santa hats. There was no mistaking that this indeed was a caroling party.

We enjoyed feasting on food before beginning to spread our Christmas cheer around the neighborhood. We headed out into the warm Hawaiian air with the spirit of Christmas written on our faces and hearts. To each house around we sang a song and shouted out "Merry Christmas" and invited them to join our rousing crowd as we continued around the neighborhood.

Our caroling voices lasted for over an hour. We giggled, we sang loudly and gave one another hugs and pats on the back. What better way to end the party than with hot steaming hot cocoa? The kids filled the livingroom and eagerly festooned their cups with whipped cream, mini-chocolate chips, and candy cane swizzle stick. The joviality and laughter left me full of happiness that even though we may not be faced with freezing cold temperatures, even in paradise, hearts are warmed when friends come together to raise their voices in song.

Next year, maybe you can join us for our clan's 2nd Annual "Carols and Cocoa" we'd love to have your voice and laughter join in spreading holiday goodwill and cheer.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

2C the Red Nosed 2nd Graders

If you had been a snowflake falling in HS's second grade classroom this year, you would have been able to enjoy the sounds of the Christmas spirit descending upon 22 second graders in 2C.

After phenomenal parent support setting up the classroom, the "elves" rested for a minute before the excitement began...



1st, they all became Rudolph...



then, they enjoyed making angels for their family tree...




next, they competed in some reindeer games: "Christmas Package Unwrap Relay" and "Pass the Candy Cane Down the Lane"





then, their teacher and aide opened their gifts from the class...a seek out adventure with clues written on twine.



Once the gifts were all unwrapped, they enjoyed the desserts and treats brought in by some of the parents (boy did I have a good time decorating the cereal cookies to look like little Santas!)



Ahhhh...the joys of class Christmas parties! This one truly left us all in the spirit of the season...ready to shine brightly and spread Christmas cheer!

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Catalina Queen

In "Navy world", meeting people, making friends, and saying farewell are synonomous to breathing. We can't live in the military world without those three things happening. The announcement that a dear friend's spouse has received orders and is now beginning the process of PCS (Permanent Change of Station) can set off an emotional whirlwind for those who are closest to the departing military family.

I have many friends that I love to talk with, but some leave a heavier footprint than others. So, when one of my dearest friends here announced she was PCSing and would be gone within a month's time, I had very little time to prepare. DF is a keystone of our neighborhood spirit or Queen of Catalina Lane, my new nickname for her; she inspired Aloha Fridays, Catalina coffees, girls movie nights, holiday potlucks, and the list goes on...her footprint is substantial and she will be missed.

I get misty eyed whenever I back the cat bus from the garage and see her house without the infamous "Rebel Road" sign hanging from the fence. Tears form when LD calls out "SOOONNNNNJAAAA" as we take our evening strolls and I know Sonja won't be appearing from her lanai with outstretched arms to pick up LD. Yep. The throne is empty. Her inspiration though will live in the hearts of those who knew her here. Those that will meet her at the next duty station are lucky to have such a gem coming and I can only pray that they'll let her make the same footprint on their hearts as she's left on ours.

I can write this blog freely now...we've been keeping their move a secret from her daughter and son who are on the mainland. Their Christmas this year, will be full of the magic of parental love and joy. I wish this family all the best in 2010. May fair winds and following seas surround the McClelland clan as they begin their next Navy adventure. We look forward to our military paths crossing once more. I'll be peering over the next fence waiting for your voice welcoming us to another neighborhood.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

'Tis the Season


The holiday season gets so chaotic. It seems with each year, I try to add a little more merriment, a little more holiday touch, and I'm always thinking, "will the kids remember this when they have their own families?" "Is this something that they'll look back on and think, 'how cool was that!'" What will they peg as our family traditions Yes, I know. I stress too much. I don't know how my parents did it...I think of my childhood as one big beautiful umbrella that kids love to dance with. It was multi-faceted, more fun than pain, and so exciting.

Well...today I paused. It really doesn't matter what I give to my kids that is tangible. My parents gave me much more than just gifts to shake and unwrap under my Christmas tree. They gave me random acts that have created what I consider Christmas: decorating sugar cookies, singing to Christmas carols around the piano, and toasting eggnog by the Christmas tree. Christmas cards in stacks ready to be mailed out to their "military family" and families spread over the country, the scent of cinnamon filling the air. Chiding us to write to Santa or else he may not know what he's going to be bringing to our stocking, then lauging over our mightly "dream" lists that we developed after hours of salivating over the JCpenny toy book.

Yep. Those are just some of my memories of my childhood Christmas. After my pause today while waiting to mail a box at the post office, I'm left with one thing: I've got huge shoes to fill. 'Tis the season to be jolly!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Joyful Noise



It's every parent's dream: a smiling child all dressed for a winter concert, music filling the air with children's voices, and the pride in watching your child sing as loudly as they can while making motions with their hands. Of course, in your dream, there are no heads in the way, no screaming children, and it is almost as if the entire concert was just you, HH, and LD as the audience.

Reality: children smiling, chatting, T-died t-shirts and jeans to set the mood for their song, and loads & loads & LOADS of people. So many that even though we arrived at the seating time of 6:15, the line was already wrapped around the church so our seats were in the back. Did we let that dampen the spirit of the season? Nope.

The classes all did a fantastic job with their songs and HS stood with pride in the back row. Gotta love a child who knows exactly where they are standing because he helped us identify him very quickly and for the times I stood up (yes, I'm one of those parents) to get a picture, he was clearly in my lens. He sung out, smiled with pride, and although most of the concert we couldn't see anything, the music of the children brought tears to my eyes (question: why is it that I cry more during the holidays than at any other time of year?). LD stood on my lap and clapped with the music, swayed her tush to the music, and for the hour we were in the church, couldn't keep her eyes from the front.

The lesson I did learn about my dream versus reality: next year, I'm going to the student performance during the day where I can sit and just take in the joy and not miss a smile. Then, for the evening performance, it won't matter where I'm sitting because I will have already had that moment of peace.

Sing out, HS! Let the joy of the season fill your heart and share it with others all year long!

Thursday, December 10, 2009

We've been Elved!

I'm not sure what happened to our clan. One minute we were all sitting around watching "Rudulph the Red Nosed Reindeer" and the next we were wearing little green elf suites and dancing around!

Hope you enjoy the giggle break from your holiday planning!


Send your own ElfYourself eCards
Send your own ElfYourself eCards

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Look Who's Two!


Happy Birthday dear one!
It's been another year of fun!

We've watched you explore the world:
crawling to walking;
Babbling to talking!

You have enjoyed playing
with your dolly,
making all of us jolly.

Music inspires delightful twirls
Smiles form that are brighter than beautiful pearls.


Oh how can it be true?
Our Princess is now TWO!

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Maestro and Tissues


Oh my, today was one for my "tear jerker" memory bank. HH has been studying piano since the beginning of September. He has truly gotten into a groove that makes my heart sing. Much like watching him in karate, the shoe seems to fit for playing piano. Now I know what all the hype is about when it comes to attending your child's 1st ever piano recital. I was blubbering before I even got into the car to take him there. I had tissue out even before he began playing, and I was trying to pull myself together enough to sit down and play his accompaniment to "Jingle Bells."

I can't say enough about his piano teacher. She is phenomenal and from the quality of the students' playing during the recital, her love of playing has filtered through during their lessons. HS counts down the seconds until he can head over to her house to play. He beamed when she told him that he played well for his two songs. It is true...he'll do whatever he can to please the people he truly admires.

It will stay in mind watching as HS walked so confidently up to the Steinway grand piano and introduced himself and his musical selections to the audience. He then played "Chimes" and "Jingle Bells" with focus, calmness, and a slight smile as we all listened to what to some may sound juvenile, but to all of us in that room, we marveled at the sound and playing of a young pianist. When combined, they all lead to one thing: melting my heart with pride.

Maestro, pass the tissues, please!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The Many Faces of LD

After spending a great deal of time in the car with LD over the Thanksgiving weekend, I had to laugh when I came across this series of pictures. No photo shop here...these were taken in rapid succession on one of our outings. It's interesting how much personality is trapped within one little person. What I love is that each never lasts for long...from full blown tantrum to giggling at her own babble to crying because she's sleepy....she hits them all.


Kissy faces...she loves doing this and scrunching up her nose! If you do it back to her, she'll love it even more an then will usually go into a giggle fit that is fit for a little queen!

Faker cry...just done to let us know that, "hey, I may be little but I'm gonna be heard!" Otherwise known as the "I'm TWO that's why" cry.










Smiling, giggling, everything is perfect in LDland.















Downright upset over whatever seems to be a bother...the seatbelt latch, sippy cup not flowing fast enough, big brother reading "her" book, or simply I turned off the Music Together CD (after listening to it on repeat for the past week).

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Deck the Hale

Deck the hale with fronds of palm trees,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.
Tis the season to be jolly,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Don we now our surfer apparel,
Fa la la, la la la, la la la.
Troll the ancient Hawaiian carol,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

See the blazing sun before us,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.
Strike the ukulele and join the chorus.
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Follow me in wish Aloha,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.
As we snorkel among Hanamua's treasures,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Fast away the old year passes,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.
Hail the new, ye lads and lasses,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.

Sing we joyous, all together,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.
Melekalikimaka from Oahu,
Fa la la la la, la la la la.


This holiday season marks our second Christmas on island. It doesn't seem possible that the year has already come full circle. I think with the same season year long, I get lost in the warmth. However, traditions will not be shaken. Although not at our hale the day after Thanksgiving to put up the tree, our tree trimming wouldn't be put off. We enjoyed putting the tree up on Sunday and our hale is ready for wishing everyone Melekalikimaka!



HS couldn't wait to help put up the tree this year. Last year, he joined the ranks of being old enough to truly put the tree together (OK...I admit it, we do artifical Christmas tree beauty). This year, he decided that the only job I had was to help put the branches into the proper placement. Other than that, he sorted the branches and followed the handy guide. It's so nice to have such a nice little Elf to help lighten the load.


LD was a riot. This is going to be a fun year with her...she helped decorate the tree with us. We really thought she would grow tired of putting the ornaments onto the tree, but she never tired of it. In fact, she surveys the tree and will move around ornaments that she sees needs to be in a slightly different spot. Elf #2 in training!



We all stood back and marveled at the tree this year. It is indeed a beautiful sight to have the tree up and all aglow. The candles are in the windows and although we may not be seeing snow this Christmas again, our spirits are not dampened. It's Melekalikimaka time again! An Eggnog toast around our tree and we are ready to enjoy the holiday season to the fullest!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Whales, Banyans, Burgers and Fondue



After our grueling experience on the road to Hana, we decided that a day of banyans, beaches, fondue, and whales would be the perfect way to relax.

Our resort was near the town of Lahaina, Maui. HH was thrilled about this prospect. After a wonderful year and a half living near New Bedford, Mass. we learned plenty about the early whaling days. Fancy that for Thanksgiving, we were right down the street from where the old whaling ships would come on their hunt for blubber. Lahaina once was the pit stop for these sailors thirsty for some land and food away from their endless days at sea. The town has tried very hard to retain the charm of these bygone days in a small historic center. HH couldn't get there fast enough.


I think we were both expecting a New England way of dealing with history...one thing about Hawaii...historical preservation of property is not a priority. The Lahaina preservation society has tried to put up plaques[5x7 size]along the main street that detail the significance of some of the buildings. Not being avid shoppers, we stopped to read them. This must not be a common site because several of the shop owners commented to us that they were happy someone was reading them. How sad. So, if you get to Lahaina, please take time to read their little white signs.





In the town square, there is the king of all banyan trees. Planted in 1873 in celebration of the 50th Anniversary of Christian missionary work in Lahaina, this once 8 foot tree now towers over the square at 60 feet tall and has spread itself into 12 major trunks in addition to a huge core. As we approached the tree, HS stood awestruck and LD ran to the roots of one of the trunks and happily chatted. "WOW! This is a GREAT spot for me!" HS shouted over his shoulder has he began to climb near LD. We spent almost an hour among the shade of this banyan. The kiddos climbed, HH and I enjoyed holding hands and laughing as the kids played within the roots. Ahhhh...we are on vacation.


Lunch at Cheeseburger in Paradise next to the shore and a clear view of Lanai [another island in the chain] was the perfect way to enjoy our lunch. I couldn't believe how big the cheeseburgers were! They ooze cheese, special sauce, and are so tasty that you won't want to put it down. LOVED is an understatement. Although many people were enjoying the french fries with them, I give the onion rings 2 thumbs up. DELISH! After our lunch, we headed back to the resort for LD's nap, HS & HH's pool time, and my snooze, I mean reading, on the balcony.






Over the past few years, we have heard tales of the delish fondue dinners at a restaurant called "The Melting Pot." Maui happens to have one near the resort so after relaxing our afternoon away, we headed for dinner. I've never had anything more than cheese or chocolate fondue. I knew I loved that. Who wouldn't? We set our course for an Alpine feast. The kids enjoyed watching our waiter bring out all the little dishes for each course. HH and I remarked that it was akin to making Shabu-Shabu [one of our favorite meals in Japan aside from the ramen, udon, sushi, gyodon etc.] By the time we left, we were stuffed to the gills and HH thinks that he knows the perfect gift for Christmas for me...a fondue pot.

As the kids snoored in the living room, we cuddled up for some wine and a holiday movie on ABC's 25 days til Christmas. Yep. Vacation. Wonderful.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Just call us Crazy

I've always thought that HH and I perched precariously on the dangerous ledge of adventure. We've thrived off of exploring the hidden gems of our duty assignments. Usually, we share our stories and meet the look of "are you kidding me" or "wow...you're insane."

BK (before kids) we loved hiking, getting "lost" in Japan every weekend (hmmm...where do we want to go...peer at train map next to ticket kiosk...that name sounds good...what's there? I don't know but we'll soon find out. AK (after kids) we curtailed our adventures somewhat, but not by much. HS went out on a boat to look for whales at 6 months.....four hours way out in the middle of the Monterey Bay with a baby in a Snuggli is not what most parents consider "fun". Hiking straight up a hill with only a rope to hold onto and a baby in a snuggli, bus trips that took 6 hours, driving up the New England coast when I was about ready to pop with LD, sail boating with HH & HS in the Narraganset Bay when I was approaching the big phase of pregnancy. Flying several time without assistance with not only just 1 child over the pond, but now 2. It all seems so very natural to us.

Exploration. That's a word with a lot of meaning for our clan. However, I think we may have taken a jump off the ledge and even I am caught scratching my head at the choice we made on spending our Thanksgiving day.

The road to Hana is suppose to be one of the most gorgeous stretches of road in the country. The area prides itself on keeping Hawaii pristine and free of tourist clutter. It is nature at it's finest. I couldn't wait to see it. After briefing HH on it, he thought it sounded beautiful. It was settled. Getting up early on Thanksgiving, we piled the kids, DS, books, and of course, my travel bible, Frommer's into the rental car. We set our trusty Sophie (gps) to show us the way to our hidden Hawaiian paradise.

FACT:
Just because you are on Maui for Thanksgiving, does not mean that places will be open. Safeway, McDonald's, and Starbucks are your best bets.


In Paia, shops and restaurants all lobbied to be the "last stop" before Hana with antiquated signs waved us onward. "Whose ready, for this adventure?" I chimed. "I'm already hungry." HS mumbled. "Well, according to Sophie, we have 3 hours until we reach Hana and lucky for us, we've filled ourselves with Micky D's and have some yummy sandwiches, chips, and drinks!" I replied with pride. LD merely wailed from the backseat...3 hours must have sounded like a death sentence. "I don't think I'll make it..." HS grumbled. "We need to make sure to call everyone for Thanksgiving when we get to Hana." HH stated, avoiding Mr. Pouty's comment. LD giggled at her feet.

The first few miles were pretty, not unlike the stretch along the North Shore or Highway 1 as it approaches Santa Barbara. Open to the sound of waves crashing and the salt air filtered itself among the trees. There are very popular surfing beaches that were covered with mostly curious tourists watching the surfers. We watched in amazement as surfers enjoyed waves that were not for the faint of heart. In fact, this area we found out later is called "Jaws" because the surf will rip you up if you aren't good enough. Guess it is a good thing that we aren't that crazy.



Shortly after these beaches, we ventured into "the country" as Maui locals refer to the Northeastern shore. With Christmas music filling the car, HH began the curves. "WOW! Isn't that beautiful?" I exclaimed under my breath. "What do you think, HS?" Silence. "Hellooooo...." I inquired as I turned to look at the kids in the backseat. "I'm reading, mom." LD who had been busily playing with Cory, happily I might add began to cry. OK...I guess I'm the one enjoying this stretch, I thought.

Fact.
The road to Hana is not really a highway. It's narrow and patched together along 42 miles of approximately 600 curves and 54 bridges that lead to Hana.


As we approached the Koolau Forest Reserve, it was evident that the windward coastline here receives its fair share of the 60 to 80 inches of rain a year, as well as runoff from the 200 to 300 inches that falls from farther up the mountain. We enjoyed looking at trees laden with guavas, as well as mangoes, java plums, and avocados the size of softballs. HH, not yet into the serious curves of the road, commented on the beauty of this area. His driving stress was about to begin.

FACT:
About 1/2 mile after mile marker 6, there's a sharp U-curve in the road, going uphill. The road is practically one-lane here, with a brick wall on one side and virtually no maneuvering room. Sound your horn at the start of the U-curve to let approaching cars know you're coming. Take this curve, as well as the few more coming up in the next several miles, very slowly.



The tidbit to sound the horn was an understatement. I'm not sure that really would have done for us anyway. HH beeped the horn...once...began the curve and then began beeping it wildly since, well...it is a BLIND TURN in every sense of the word. I held my breath. HS read. LD let out a blood curdling scream. HH sighed.

Fact:
Hiking is an awesome opportunity to enjoy nature without the stress of life...especially when "trees are at work".




Waikamoi Ridge Trail, an easy .75-mile loop (Waikamoi means "waters of the king") meanders throughout fern, hala, and delightful smelling eucalyptus trees. LD enjoyed stretching her legs while HS searched for bees and beetles. HH and I chatted for the first time freely since getting on the road. Sitting along the roots of a huge tree, I checked the cell phone for service...no bars. Uh-oh.

Fact:
The Road to Hana is world famous for the natural beauty of its unblemished landscapes and towering waterfalls.




I couldn't get over the waterfalls along the drive. Some were just like out of a Hawaii picture book. They were serene, romantic, and well...jungle like. Tarzan could have swung by with Jane and HH would have missed it. I feel really sorry for HH. Since he was behind the wheel, he didn't get the opportunity to truly appreciate the size and power of some of the falls. We stopped at Puaa Kaa State Wayside. Puaa Kaa translates as "open laughter" and the sound of the falls lived up to that name. Beautiful ginger plants bloomed around the base of the waterfall and eager HS was devastated that he couldn't venture closer to the water. Others, disregarding the obvious barricades, went along the pathway, regardless. "Darlin', if it is misting down here at our level, it is pouring higher along the mountain chain. You don't want to be in the water." I reassured him as we walked back to the car. "OK. You're right." he pouted.

Fact:
At mile marker 32, just on the outskirts of Hana, shiny black-sand Waianapanapa Beach appears like a vivid dream, with bright-green jungle foliage on three sides and cobalt-blue water lapping at its feet. The 120-acre park on an ancient aa lava flow includes sea cliffs, lava tubes, arches, and the beach.



We hiked down to the Waianapanapa Beach simply fascinated by the darkness of the sand as it met the sea. Black sand beaches are a marvel and if you haven't been able to enjoy one, I hope you do before your lifetime is through. The sand is nothing like the normal grit that sticks to everything. Black sand is more akin to little pellets. LD is enamored by them. We enjoyed a nice picnic lunch before taking in the coolness of the water. Although others were "swimming", we chose to just let HS and LD play in the sand and let the water rush over their toes. The undertow was nasty. At one point, I asked HH to move my fip-flops out harms way before he took HS to the caves. I proceeded to play with LD and giggle and scream in joy as the water crashed ashore. Until I spotted one of my slippers gliding towards the raging, churning waters. The other I suspect, had already brained a fish. Thank goodness, I had brought along my hiking shoes.

Fact: When you make the trip over to Hana, you'll see why it's referred to as The Land That Time Forgot.

"This would be the perfect time to call our families. Dinner would be over and we wouldn't be interrupting anything." HH said as glided his feet through the black sand. "ummmm...yeah. Let's see..." I said as I fumbled around for the cell phone in my pocket. [note:remember I said I had already checked and no bars...I checked each time we stopped and nothing. That being said,I expected a miracle if we had service here on a secluded beach]. As LD played on a log, HH, HS, and I huddled around the phone. I flipped it open. Groans ensued. The bars were nonexistent. We were after all, in paradise. Secluded. Charmed. Alone. Without service. Our Thanksgiving wishes would have to wait.

FACT.
The Road to Hana can bring you closer to heaven in more ways than one. With winding roads, blind turns, constant traffic, distracting views, narrow one-lane roads, cliffs, wet conditions, and locals who drive straight through yield signs, the road is incredibly dangerous.


We attempted to count how many yield signs we passed on our return back out of Hana. It was somewhere around 46. Although, I have to admit that we probably lost track because we were watching near death experiences with the cars ahead of us.

FACT:
The Road to Hana is amazing, a magical place where rainforests create vivid imaginations, and is unforgettable.




After experiencing the drive and marveling at the beauty along the road to Hana, I am glad that we did it, but would not need to do it again. The memories will last me for long enough and I don't think that I could pry the kids into the car again if they knew we were heading back down the curvy road to Hana. As HS said to one of our friends, "We survived the road!" We are crazy. What's next?

Note: Honestly, this is a gorgeous road but for our friends here on island, the road to Haleakala on Maui is just as breathtaking only without the risk of bodily injury. HH says that after driving it there is one way to appreciate the area without going insane: take a helicopter ride.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving

Ahhhh....the smell of homemade pumpkin pie drifts across the mighty pond and embraces us. Instantly, we feel connected to all our family and friends who sit down to their tables and look towards the center where the turkey proudly is displayed and the table linens are crisp and neat. Kids chatter over their favorite part of the Macy's Thanksgiving day parade while sisters compare the bands who marched. Football cheers and jeers ensue as the men take a gander on who will win the game.

It's that time. We can envision it as we sit and relax on Maui. We miss each of you and look forward to a Thanksgiving when we can all be together. We will look forward to our table being set, the turkey proudly displayed, all the trimmings ready. As we sit down to enjoy it, we'll see your faces around our table as the spirit of this holiday brings us all together.

Rejoice and immerse yourself in "thanks" and "giving" and remember we love you as Thanksgiving fills your home this year!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Thankful Thoughts...Time


Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.
~Carl Sandburg


Thankful for Time

Alone
It's interesting how much I crave solitude. I think it comes after I've spent the entire day listening to others, laughing and talking with my family and friends, and being on the go...constantly. I love to curl up on the bed and read free of distractions and the phone. Writing this blog while LD has her afternoon nap is always a joy. The moments of being alone help me recenter, refocus, and realize that my time alone ensures that the rest of the family will get a better piece of me.


Couple Time
Evenings chatting on the lanai when the house inside snores and dreams, brings HH and I back to where our relationship first took root: a wonderful conversation. We love our moments together on date evenings and enjoy snuggling on the sofa during a movie or while watching one of our favorite TV shows. Time spent just the two of us makes sure that the intimacy so vital in a relationship is burning. The kids will thank us when we celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary.


Children
What better way to remain young at heart than by sitting on the floor building with Legos or playing princess. HS keeps me in line with the school age angst, interests, and laughter. LD makes me stay limber as I dance around like a silly nilly while belting out our favorite songs from Music Together.

Time stands still for no one. That's while I'm thankful for the time that has been given to me. The seconds turn into minutes; minutes into hours; and hours into the memories that I reflect upon. Time brings me the joy that creeps across my face as witnessed in the smile or wink of a loved one. Time. What do do with yours?

Sunday, November 22, 2009

New Moon Crazed

Honestly, I read the first book in the Twilight series because it was the read of the month last year for a book club. I was less than impressed. I know...I know...that's like saying Chocolate ice-cream isn't yummy or that Snickers bars need to be made without all the caramel and nuts. My feeling of the first book is that it had potential...so, I read through the first book...painfully holding onto it without putting it down unfinished. The second in the series, was a little less painful. The writing had evolved and I trudged through without as much pain. The third kept me awake reading way into the night and by the last book, I swear you would have thought that I had transformed into a vampire with the pale face and sunken eyes...only I didn't glisten like diamonds as they do in the book.

As far as the movies are concerned, I'm feeling like they are moving along as well as my readings of the book. I hated the acting in the first, guess I chalk that also to the fact that I am not a teeny bopper who is addicted to the latest heart throb. However, the excitement and anticipation for seeing the second movie, New Moon, led me to a gals night out and standing in line with 100 of my closet friends.

We enjoyed sitting in near-perfect seats and were enthralled for the next two hours with the fact that a 17 year-old could have muscles like the ones that Jacob had. Cougarville here we come...by the end of the movie, I am definitely more excited for the next in the series to hit the big screen. From the numbers who flocked to the theaters, Eclipse, the third in the series is sure to be another gal evenin'. Thank goodness for Fandango and fun friends.

In case you were wondering:

* New Moon makes history, becomes third biggest grosser.
* By the end of opening weekend it had made $140.7 million and $258.8 million
worldwide.
* I am still enthralled by Team Edward...but for this movie I ran to Team Jacob's
side.


Special Note:
Thank you HH for watching the kids so I could squeal along with the other 10 gals who joined us on this movie evenin' and giggle like a schoolgirl during the movie!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Thankful Thoughts...Nature

The hot sultry days of Hawaii are beginning to disappear as our cooler tradewinds fill the day with glorious 75 degree weather. I have to admit, it feels wonderful to wander around the house and look out my windows to a crystal clear blue sky and see the beautiful blue hue of Pearl Harbor lapping our shores. LD can go outside and play now at 10 and not be scorched by the sun's rays and I can still tinker around the flowerbeds during her afternoon nap without roasting. Nature provides us with backdrops for some marvelous things in our lives. I'm thankful that I've been taught how to appreciate beauty in what others may find disgusting, and I'm thankful that I have a family who is not afraid to step out into the unknown of a hike through God's beautiful quilt we call Earth. Today, I'm...

Thankful for Nature

Mountains
The more rugged the better. I adore the feeling of hiking along a trail not knowing what lies ahead...a squirrel in the tree? A chipmunk peering over a boulder twitching his tail as I walk by? A mongoose scurrying across to the trail in search of the perfect sleeping spot. Mountains rising from land are inspiring. The knowlege that it has taken them thousands of years to become what I see is humbling.


Prairies
I'm not fearful of seeing forever, I'm terrified of being trapped amongst buildings. Praire land opens it's abundance to me as I wander the fields around my Aunt's farm and I hear the call of the cattle in the pasture, the buzz of a bee checking to see if I'm sweet, and the touch of the wheat as it tickles my palms. To see my children now enjoying the same brings tears to my eyes...they, too, have the West in their hearts and it is growing within them like a beautiful butterfly grows within a cocoon.


Coasts
I remember my first time seeing the beaches of Jacksonville and Ponte Vedra, Florida. I thought I had died and gone to heaven as we moved into our apartment. That was the first beach area that I can rember sighing and saying, this is beautiful...for water. When we arrived in Monterey, California for our tour there, I looked at HH and hugged him for getting an assignment with such remarkale natural aspects. Finally, I was away from the "big" city life and enjoyed wandering along the bike path with HS in his stroller listening to the bark of the sea lion, the splashes of the sea otter, and feeling quite content with the mountains crashing into the rocky coastline of the West coast. Our tour in New England brought me back to the love of a rugged coast as we explored Rhode Island all the way to Maine. The smell of the salt air became invigorating, the chatter of the sea gulls over our heads as we hiked in Acadia, and the fishing boats leaving harbors for their quest for lobsta and fish brought about a calm that I had never experienced. I am in love with the ruggedness of a beach that can provide such wonderful moments with nature.


I have become a lover of the ocean and rugged mountains.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Thankful Thoughts...Health

I headed over the mountain today to visit my DF. There was no denying that today would be our day to chatter away...she had written herself onto my calendar! At about 7 am, she called..."hey! I know you're coming over this morning, but would you like to go running?" I love friends who try to keep my work-out schedule in line. "Sure." I replied. As we ran along the trail near the ocean, I couldn't help but think...God are we lucky people. Today, I'm...

Thankful for Good Health

My health:
I'm terrified of contracting some kind of cancer. I am. I freely admit it. I'm also scared of losing my mental abilities or my ability to move. Although I "hate" running, I love the feeling my heart gives when I've hit a good pace and I'm thankful that my legs will move.

My children's health:
Both of our children are blessings. After a miscarriage before HS and then struggling to keep him in my womb, I can still remember thinking how grateful we were that he had all ten fingers and toes. Then came five years of trying for another blessing. LD is a miracle. I lost count of how many miscarrages I had between HS and LD. Each brought me deeper into a purple funk that I felt hopelessly pulled into. Upon hearing that I was expecting, I remember crying and praying and screaming out in jubilation. The icing on already wonderful news...she, too is healthy.

Miracles of Medicine:
My family may be healthy now, but rain falls upon us all. I'm thankful that we have medicine and science on our sides. Treatments, early detection, and the brains of doctors who love their job will help when the need arises. I have experienced those treatments and people...a surgery to remove so many fibroids from my uterus that the only one who truly believed it would work out OK was the doctor who preformed the myomectomy. Proof of his ability: LD. My father went through testing, upon testing for early detection of prostate cancer. He, too, had a strong set of doctors and is now cancer free. We are lucky in our country. Medicine is important and health of our people is important. May we always be thankful for that.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Clark! Have you seen Superman?


I've thought for years that HH could go into a phone booth without hesitation and come back out as Superman. There was only a few minor missing pieces.

Before, he wandered around without his glasses. With a minor astigmatism there was no need. That was before the constant hours working and straining his eyes on computer screens, books, and briefs. Although I think he hated to finally face the fact that the dry, red eyes and blurry vision was his astigmatism gone mad, a trip to the optometrist and a vision screening proved that he was indeed Clark Kent and needed the missing piece: a nifty set of good looking glasses.

I was surprised during lunch today, when my Superman came through the door looking like a Clark Kent in Navy gear. Perfect in every way he could be. Including the glasses.