I don't like to say goodbye. In fact, over the years, I've come to hate those words. I've never been good at saying them. Ever. So, as my last day of my visit with my parents came, I was already dreading the end of the day. How do I make myself feel better? A trip to the Bellows is always nice. With a picnic lunch, two excited kids, two reminiscing parents, and me, it was a day that turned out to be relaxed, fun, and a perfect end to a fantastic visit.
I have never been to Bellows when the wind wasn't blowing. The waves are perfect for boogie boarding. Papa taught HS how to boogie board and they had such a great time that eventually, wave worn and cold, they came out of the water to the beach. Mom became the boogie boarding gal and was out in waves that would have terrified me, but out she was bobbing and riding with a giggle and a grin. She was so brave that Papa asked her to come where there was more of a shoal and less of a drop-off then were she was. LD squealed, thrashed her legs to a throw and until a wave clobbered us (and we were only sitting along the shore), was happy to be wave jumping with me. After she was clobbered (I don't mean that literally...she just took in a little icky salt water) she enjoyed trying to walk the beach on her chunky legs.
What better wave to finish off a good Bellows day then a stop at Dave's Ice-cream. Yummy!!! Dave's Ice-cream melts in your mouth...it is creamy, homemade, and fantastic. Papa is my ice-cream nut and after sampling the icecream a while ago, I knew that this would be a perfect end to the day. I think it was a success.
Relaxing on the lanai, taking silly pictures, and reflecting on our visit led us up to the last few hours of their time on island. I think we became so relaxed that the hour leading up to getting them onto the plane snuck up on us. A very fast stop at one of my favorite viewing spots of the Arizona for a picture and then the drive to the airport reminding me of what I hate most about visits. Goodbye.
I feel sorry for HH. The drive home from the airport was akin to a bad romance film. LD was screaming. HS was shnuffling and crying. I was sobbing. Yep. Goodbyes. I hate them. I despise them. I'm pathetic at them. Especially when it is with my parents. I know. I'm 34. But thank God for visits from them. They've come to every place we've ever been stationed. Gladly. Frequently. The kids have memories with them that will last long after their childhood has ended. I have memories of my childhood with them that easily transitioned into adulthood.
Thank you for coming to stay with us in paradise. You made it even more special.
*snorkeling beside you without your glasses!
*LD unpacking Popop's luggage as he was trying to pack
*Pack meeting and Den meeting for HS
*Hiking a mile to the Jaggar museum
*Kendo the Gigalo
*Boogie Boarding
*Listening to HS sneak downstairs to snuggle with you in the morning
*Granma reading bedtime stories
*Squeals of delight from LD as you got her up in the morning
*Bingo at KMC
*Waiting for the special Hula night...only we had to do our own
*Stories of your R&R from Vietnam
*Coffee on the lanai...with the ugly, brutal flies!
*Hanging up the starlights with Papa
*Caught in the rainshowers under the eaves of the Byodo-in
*Giggling at all the signage at KMC...
*Traveling through the Islands...in an hour...thanks to HS's Catholic Schools' Week
*Self-portraits by camera
*Sharing ice-cream and shaved ice...using only a spoon or two (for most people this would gross them out...with you, not so much...thank you!!!)